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Old 04-23-2009, 09:01 PM   #1
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Well, this thread is about when you add someone to be your friend, and they decline your request. This person may have a reason: so don't get mad. Some people aren't allowed to invite friends and others just have their reasons. There is no point in getting upset.
This person probably doesn't have harsh feelings against you, they just simply have their reason. So please don't complain to them, or get mad. Unless of course they say it rudely such as "Eww, No way!"

Examples::

member1: Hi, do you want to be friends?

member2: Uhhh, no way... :/

member1: Umm, okay... thanks anyway...

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member1: Hi, want to be friends?

member2: Um, no thank you. I have my reason, sorry.

member1: That was RUDE! All I wanted to do was be your friend! Gosh, jerk!

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member1: Want to be friends?

member2: No thank you, I have my reason, and it has nothing to do with you-- please don't be offended.

member1: That's fine But if you'd like we could still talk.

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Which was best? If you picked three, good job. I've seen this happen a few times, and I do ALWAYS accept friends requests... but some people don't and please respect their reason.

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Old 04-23-2009, 09:06 PM   #2
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I was reading number 1 and I'm like "man that guy's a JERK!"

but anyway, I agree. I've seen people get really steamed up over someone not accepting the friend request! Good idea to remind people of this! Rep!
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Old 04-23-2009, 09:08 PM   #3
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nice advice! i like this idea.!
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Old 04-23-2009, 09:09 PM   #4
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Great reminder! Sometimes people just don't want to add more people on their list.
It doesn't mean you can't still talk to that person though [unless they have profile on friends only of course], but you have to remember that there is always a reason for someone doing something like that.
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Why thank you lol
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Old 04-23-2009, 09:15 PM   #6
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Very good reminder!
Its not that big of a deal if someone doesn't say yes to your friend request... i mean they don't even know you... and i think its silly to get all worked up over practically nothing.
I am not trying to be rude. Just my own opinion speaking.
and i am sorry if i offended anybody....
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Old 04-23-2009, 09:17 PM   #7
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Very good point! When someone wants to be your friend, you should remember that, if you should choose to decline, you make sure the person isn't offended. And also, you should usually talk to the user before asking, like:

"Oooh! your dog is so cute! it looks just like mine, want to be friends?!"

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Old 04-24-2009, 01:09 AM   #8
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lol! I read example #1 and I was like, "Oh no Person 2 didn't!"
And then on example #2 I was like ,"Umm...over emotional aren't you Person 1!"
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Old 04-24-2009, 02:44 AM   #9
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This is a good thing to mention. On WI, I will accept anyone, so this does not affect me at all, but on Myspace, I only add people tp my friends' list that I know in real life, so I totally understand not wanting to add someone.

But I agreee with both points...if you decline a friend request or if you are on the receiving end of that decline, handling it with discretion and respect.
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Old 04-24-2009, 05:54 AM   #10
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What nice advice! I never had someone say they do not want to be friends so I never put together the thought that you can decline requests.
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