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Old 06-10-2011, 08:27 AM   #41
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I need help, please . . .

It's suprising when i just started have a big problem, there's a thread i can see about these situations.

I will say a little bit, if that is ok with you. Ok. People have been making fun of me and Hercule Poirat sometimes, i don't know how to respond. People just be rude to me. I'm asking pretty much everyone who posts on this thread. In real life, thank Shea Home ness, they like He.P. as much as i do.
This is something that I've seen also, and I would like to say that YOU are a valuable and precious member here on WI that should feel safe here. If people don't want to post about your passion, or if they are just going to harrass you about it, then they should skip the thread and move on to another thread.
I really hope that the members here can please think carefully before they post. This is one of those situations where just blurting out every honest thought might be really hurtful. Let's be sensitive to each other's feelings.
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Old 06-10-2011, 08:27 AM   #42
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EDITED Site but when I went there and saw the "images"; it brings you to the actual post. Some of the things people post are actually very inappropriate and I try to flag them, but not all catch my eye.

I also don't like when people post the same topic all the time; because then I'll get more agitated by the fact that they can't just respect other people's ideas and opinions. I know they may have a security blanket, but they shouldn't close their VM's and PM's and just make the same thread over again. I try to stay positive, but this is where it crosses the line because I feel that I cannot talk about what I want without getting my thread closed/red-flagged/moved to an older and less posting section/etc. I feel closed from everyone and everything and I cannot stand it. But if I feel as though I complain to someone, I may end up hurting someone though I never meant to.
Your'e describing me almost . . . I don't like rude comments. The problem is people won't let me express my hobby. I like this forum, i'm not going to another one. I don't know what to do . . .i just don't. I won't leave, never.
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Old 06-10-2011, 08:32 AM   #43
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Your'e describing me almost . . . I don't like rude comments. The problem is people won't let me express my hobby. I like this forum, i'm not going to another one. I don't know what to do . . .i just don't. I won't leave, never.
I hope you don't leave. It would be really, really sad if you felt like you had to leave because a few people here had too little patience or understanding. I hope you stay, and I hope other members here can start showing you more kindness. You deserve that, just like every other member here does.
C'Mon guys, let's be a Forum of people who are kind to each other. Please? Subtle bullying over time can be hurtful.
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Old 06-10-2011, 08:36 AM   #44
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I'm thinking about leaving because my threads turn into fights, then my brain's stuck.
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Old 06-10-2011, 08:40 AM   #45
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I'm thinking about leaving because my threads turn into fights, then my brain's stuck.
That would be awful if you left Please stay, maybe after seeing this, people will be nicer about expressing their opinion. I know there are some other members that are in tough situations too and hopefully everyone stays, it would be terrible if we had members leave because they were treated unfairly
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Old 06-10-2011, 08:42 AM   #46
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We all get moments like that. The more someone tells us not to think about something, it seems the more we DO think about it.
There are many other parts of the forum to explore and you are very good at graphics.
Why not try and see what others might like
Don't forget that not everyone feels they way you do about certain things.
I know I am not that fond of certain artists (musical) so I tend to stay away from those polls and threads. That way I don't get 'stuck' with my thoughts.
The problem with getting 'stuck' is that it gets you upset and then you get 'unglued.' Know what I mean?
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Old 06-10-2011, 08:51 AM   #47
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We all get moments like that. The more someone tells us not to think about something, it seems the more we DO think about it.
There are many other parts of the forum to explore and you are very good at graphics.
Why not try and see what others might like
Don't forget that not everyone feels they way you do about certain things.
I know I am not that fond of certain artists (musical) so I tend to stay away from those polls and threads. That way I don't get 'stuck' with my thoughts.
The problem with getting 'stuck' is that it gets you upset and then you get 'unglued.' Know what I mean?
Yes . . .i get it. I don't know why the people who are mean re-visit an other related thread, it gets me . . .whooooooo!
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:17 AM   #48
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C'Mon guys, let's be a Forum of people who are kind to each other. Please? Subtle bullying over time can be hurtful.
(oh believe me, I know that )


I do agree with this. Bottom line, we should be more nice to ALL people on the forum. Of course, we should not bow at any one person's feet, but we should definitely be kinder to people.
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Old 06-10-2011, 09:29 AM   #49
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This is a very good reminder, which I agree with. I have also noticed some hurtful comments throughout the forum, that are completely uncalled for. Although I do agree that being honest is good, but you should still be kind when stating your opinion. For instance, there are comments on Polls about certain musicians that get very mean. My thoughts are, the person that made the thread is obviously a fan along with other members of the forum. So even of your not a fan yourself, you don't have to say rude and hurtful comments about the musician. A simple "No, I'm not a fan." would be fine, or even better just ignore any threads that aren't something you like. I will even admit, the site at times is just overflowing with rude comments about things I enjoy or like and it has turned me off a bit. It has greatly impacted how much time I spend here, and has even made posting not as enjoyable because I feel that most things are made into an argumental topic. Bottom line is, just be kind and treat other as you would like to be treated.
Again, this is a wonderful reminder and I appreciate it being posted.

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Old 06-10-2011, 09:34 AM   #50
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I totally agree, Desty.
I think the biggest thing here is that too many people have arrogance that they just need to lose. That's just one thing I can't stand. Say like I posed a drawing I took lots of time making, and someone came up and said "I could do better..". Or there's just some people here the way they talk to others comes off.. not right, towards others. I do understand that it's hard to interpret things exactly over the internet, but if you think your post might sound rude.. maybe add some similes or something like that? They can show that you're trying to be friendly. I've also seen lots of WI "Gangs" on here.. I mean like people who follow others, and If they don't like something or they get mad, there'll be their friends there making the situation worse. I've also seen people openly bashing other members through VM's too. If you can't say mean things like that on the open forum, what makes you think you can say it through VM's?
The last thing that bothers me VERY much, is when people make fun of other because of their typing ability.. This is a forum for everyone, you could be talking to a little kid who hasn't learned how to type well yet.. :L
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