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Old 10-16-2009, 10:31 PM   #1
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Default Answered: Why is there always that person, who always leaves "negative" and "wrong" comments?

Every time I post something, there is always at least one person, who just wrongs whatever I am trying to say/saying. Why? I like positive comments, not ones that are negative, etc... I am thinking of actually quitting WI for the time being, because I can't handle negative comments anymore... Why do people leave negative posts? I think it hurts the feelings of other people.
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Every time I post something, there is always at least one person, who just wrongs whatever I am trying to say/saying. Why? I like positive comments, not ones that are negative, etc... I am thinking of actually quitting WI for the time being, because I can't handle negative comments anymore... Why do people leave negative posts? I think it hurts the feelings of other people.
I think people are negative toward others because it somehow makes them feel better about themselves.

Just ignore them, QQ! Your avie is much too cute and we would miss you so please don't leave.
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Old 10-16-2009, 10:38 PM   #2
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View Post Originally Posted by Quack Quack
Every time I post something, there is always at least one person, who just wrongs whatever I am trying to say/saying. Why? I like positive comments, not ones that are negative, etc... I am thinking of actually quitting WI for the time being, because I can't handle negative comments anymore... Why do people leave negative posts? I think it hurts the feelings of other people.
I think people are negative toward others because it somehow makes them feel better about themselves.

Just ignore them, QQ! Your avie is much too cute and we would miss you so please don't leave.
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Old 10-16-2009, 10:39 PM   #3
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Default Re: Why is there always that person, who always leaves "negative" and "wrong" comments?

I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling this way, it's very unpleasant to feel constantly criticised.

There are several reasons why this happens but often it has to do with the nature of a forum: a person types something quickly, in their mind the tone of voice is friendly, but when someone else reads it, without a face to look at, or a smile or wink, it may sound quite different than it was intended. This is why we have smileys .

Also there are all ages here, and of course some are more tactful than others.

In a discussion, there will be different points of view. Not everyone will agree with the way that you see things. Sometimes that can be hard to accept, but it's part of life, you know? It can't be helped.

I hope you stay because I always read your posts with interest.
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Old 10-16-2009, 10:41 PM   #4
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Default Re: Why is there always that person, who always leaves "negative" and "wrong" comments?

Please don't let what other people say bother you that much. Unfortunately, it's a part of life that there are people who seem to enjoy being negative or hurting others. It makes them feel superior, when in fact it shows them to be quite the opposite.

You have to allow someone to hurt you with words--so don't give them permission to hurt you. I know that is easier said than done--I am well past being an adult and I can still get my feelings hurt. But there are so many wonderful people at WI, and we would miss you if you stop visiting.

Concentrate on the lovely people and ignore the bad ones--it's good practice for growing up. When someone writes something hurtful, just say (out loud if it helps)--"HA! I do not give you permission to hurt my feelings." And then read something good that a nice person wrote.

Good luck--and don't leave!
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Old 10-16-2009, 10:42 PM   #5
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Default Re: Why is there always that person, who always leaves "negative" and "wrong" comments?

Thanks everyone, I think I am just really sensitive, I get my feelings hurt REALLY easily...
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Old 10-16-2009, 10:43 PM   #6
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Default Re: Why is there always that person, who always leaves "negative" and "wrong" comments?

I'm back again - I forgot to say this very important thing:

Rudeness is not allowed on WI. If you see a rude post, one that puts you down, FLAG it! The staff will look at it and deal with it. We don't want hurt feelings either.
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Old 10-16-2009, 10:52 PM   #7
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Default Re: Why is there always that person, who always leaves "negative" and "wrong" comments?

Quack Quack, don't let anyone get you down. As is the case with any forum where large numbers of people gather, there will be conflicting opinions. Some choose to state their case in a polite manner while others frame their message in less than tactful terms.
I've read many of your posts and would miss you-- please don't leave.
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