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purplerocks1307-17-2009 02:23 PM

stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
have you ever been stalked? if not you might want to read this!!!!!


Stalkers will not take no for an answer.They refuse to believe that a victim is not interested in them or will not rekindle their relationship and often believe that the victim really does love them, but just doesn't know it and needs to be pushed into realizing it. As long as they continue pursuing their victim, the stalker can convince themselves they haven't been completely rejected yet.
Stalkers display an obsessive personality.They are not just interested in, but totally obsessed with the person they are pursuing. Their every waking thought centers on the victim, and every plan the stalker has for the future involves the victim. Ask yourself this. Is the person totally involved in and completely overwhelmed with pursuing someone who has no and never will have any interest in him or her?Along with obsessive thinking, they also display other psychological or personality problems and disorders. They may suffer from erotomania, paranoia, schizophrenia, and delusional thinking. According to Professor R. Meloy, "these stalkers have rigid personalities and maladaptive styles. These disorders in themselves are very stable and not treatable." There are drugs to treat certain specific mental disorders, but stalkers, when given the choice, seldom continue with their medication or treatment.
Stalkers are above average in intelligence and are usually smarter than the run of the mill person with mental problems.They will go to great lengths to obtain information about their victims or to find victims who have secretly moved. They have been known to hack into computers, tap telephone lines, take jobs at public utilities that allow them access to the victims or information about the victims, and even to travel thousands of miles and spend thousands of dollars to gain information about or find their victims. Stalkers many times use their intelligence to throw others off their trail.
Most stalkers don't have any relationship outside the one they are trying to re-establish or the one they have imagined exists between them and their victim. Because they are usually loners, stalkers become desperate to obtain this relationship.
Stalkers don't display the discomfort or anxiety that people should naturally feel in certain situations.Normal individuals would be extremely embarrassed to be caught following other people, going through their trash looking for information about them, leaving obscene notes, and other inappropriate behavior displayed by stalkers. Stalkers, however, don't see this as inappropriate behavior, but only as a means to gain the person's love.
Stalkers often suffer from low self-esteem, and feel they must have a relationship with the victim in order to have any self worth.Preoccupations with other people almost always involve someone with weak social skills and low self-esteem

lemony07-17-2009 02:55 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
thanks for the info.........I hope it never happens to anyone.......how terrible is that :(

Twilightrocks07-17-2009 03:07 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
Scary, LOL!

koalakinzforever07-17-2009 04:09 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
That's a great piece of information. I hope I never have to be the victim...how terrible.:(

btvs4907-17-2009 04:14 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
Thanks for the info. It could be very helpful.

Kiyoshi07-17-2009 04:38 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
Thanks for the info, will come in handy. We have this one person in our grade that once stalked my for two moths before I found out, I still have nightmares, it scared me so much.
I made my mom call his mom and tell him to control him. He was never left alone from then on.

Sparky110907-17-2009 04:44 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
I used to have someone that stalked me..... It had gotten so bad, and so freaky for me, that we ended up moving.
Very good info, and defintely to be taken seriously ;)

Pupcake07-17-2009 04:46 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
Thanks for the info. :)

Lyssa4507-17-2009 04:48 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
Thank you very much for the information. Rep. :) Must be terrible to be a victim...:(
If you're being stalked, it must be taken seriously and an action has to be made.

lizzyxwebkinz07-17-2009 05:29 PM

Re: stalkers... :( PLEASE READ!!!
 
Thanks for info! I've never been stalked (Unless you count an annoying 6 year old following you around the school xD). I think it would be horrible to be stalked. :( Rep for the info! :)


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