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Old 02-16-2014, 07:44 PM   #1
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Okay so there is this person that bothers me so much. I mean first I thought she was awesome. But really now I think she is a jerk and a brat I just wished she was out of my life but a friend of mine just so happens to know her and talks to her a lot so when i go to say hi to him she is always there. I mean she says things that make me so mad first of all she says this one thing that is against the 10 commandments. That makes me just want to slap her but obviously I know I cant do that XP I dont know what to do about I mean its not like i can push her out of my life when my guy friend is all ways talking to her.
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Old 02-16-2014, 07:51 PM   #2
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if this is bothering you to the point you want to slap her then maybe you should talk to that friend. don't slap people, that's not the way to go. but i think in the end you should keep in mind, there are going to be people you won't like in life; and if your friend likes her you shouldn't try and end the friendship. but do distance yourself from it.

maybe try and find the good in her (that helps me tolerate people i hate), there must be something good in her because you thought she was awesome at first.

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You can always be friends with your one but avoid her. It's hard, yeah, and it takes a while to push bad people out of your life, and it's not always permanent. But it's worth it man. It really really is. The times I manage to avoid thinking about a mind crippling situation I put myself through (sometimes you're your own worst enemy, eh?), I am incredibly happy as though nothing ever happened. It's magic.
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i have to deal with that everyday tbh and my best advice is to just ignore them
either that or stop talking to your other friend i guess
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Old 02-16-2014, 08:24 PM   #5
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if this is bothering you to the point you want to slap her then maybe you should talk to that friend. don't slap people, that's not the way to go. but i think in the end you should keep in mind, there are going to be people you won't like in life; and if your friend likes her you shouldn't try and end the friendship. but do distance yourself from it.

maybe try and find the good in her (that helps me tolerate people i hate), there must be something good in her because you thought she was awesome at first.
I cant talk to her, and I cant really say why
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Old 02-19-2014, 07:01 PM   #6
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i'm having similar issues irl
honestly this kid is so annoying but he is so clingy
i wish he would move faaaaar away
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Old 02-19-2014, 07:11 PM   #7
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this is bad advice but I knew a girl like that in 8th grade and she started saying things about me and my teachers (graphic, adult things) and I told her to stop but she wouldn't so I said if she didn't stop I'd hit her and she said "DO IT I'LL HIT YOU BACK" So I got up and hit her and she just sat there screaming like a 2 year old little baby

Okay that's really bad advice, violence isn't the answer
well it was in that case cos it made her stop
but I think you should just ignore her if you can't get away from her. all throughout life, you're going to have to be around people you cannot stand. and you have to just deal with it and be nice to them anyway. There's plenty of people I work with that I hate, or people who I still see from high school that I want to punch like I hit that girl in 8th grade, but in the adult world that's not how things work, you just have to live and let go and not let them bother you.
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Old 02-20-2014, 06:35 PM   #8
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this happened to me at the beginning of the year at my new school.
just tell her straight up that you don't want to be friends anymore. if she asks you why, just tell her that you think a friendship between you and her would end up being a bad situation. honestly, i don't think ignoring her would be the best way to go - she would probably try to talk to you and patch things up in your relationship and i don't think you want that to happen.

give my suggestion a try - it worked for me.
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Lots of people say things against the 10 Commandments, doesn't make it right, doesn't mean I like that, but try to if not develop tolerance then at least a good way to go about dealing with it, because chances are you will run into lots of people who do that and you may not always be able to just push them out of your life or avoid them.
Secondly, if she bothers you that much, you need to not go around her any more than is absolutely necessary, OR you need to talk to her when you have her full attention in a kind, caring, sincere manner and explain the things that bother you about the way she comports herself and see if you can work it out and become good friends. You've said you can't talk to her, I don't know why but you may want to give it a try anyway. The Bible says to have two or more witnesses, so maybe you should bring your parents or someone reliable and truthful to the talk so she can't lie about what you said later if she is that kind of person.
If you decide to avoid her or cut her out of your life, I wouldn't suggest announcing it to her. For one thing, you could make an enemy, and for another, you don't want to burn a bridge with someone who could STILL turn around and become a good friend. What I've done with a certain friend of mine when she hurt my feelings on a particular issue is just very peacefully ignoring her. Be nice to her when you see her, but don't make a point of seeing her and don't be perhaps quite as friendly as you have been. But I don't know what your relationship with her is like, maybe you've always been cool, or maybe sarcastic with her so it's not like you were gushy and can now just be cooler to her. See, I was always super friendly to said friend of mine, so when this happened, I was able to cool a little without becoming mean. I don't know. I just wouldn't announce to her that you're ignoring her or anything. Also, try not to get your guy friend involved, a third person in a situation that should only concerns two just sounds like a bad idea.
I hope you found something helpful out of all that rambling, and I hope things work out well for you with this girl.
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Old 02-21-2014, 07:16 AM   #10
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Lots of people say things against the 10 Commandments, doesn't make it right, doesn't mean I like that, but try to if not develop tolerance then at least a good way to go about dealing with it, because chances are you will run into lots of people who do that and you may not always be able to just push them out of your life or avoid them.
Secondly, if she bothers you that much, you need to not go around her any more than is absolutely necessary, OR you need to talk to her when you have her full attention in a kind, caring, sincere manner and explain the things that bother you about the way she comports herself and see if you can work it out and become good friends. You've said you can't talk to her, I don't know why but you may want to give it a try anyway. The Bible says to have two or more witnesses, so maybe you should bring your parents or someone reliable and truthful to the talk so she can't lie about what you said later if she is that kind of person.
If you decide to avoid her or cut her out of your life, I wouldn't suggest announcing it to her. For one thing, you could make an enemy, and for another, you don't want to burn a bridge with someone who could STILL turn around and become a good friend. What I've done with a certain friend of mine when she hurt my feelings on a particular issue is just very peacefully ignoring her. Be nice to her when you see her, but don't make a point of seeing her and don't be perhaps quite as friendly as you have been. But I don't know what your relationship with her is like, maybe you've always been cool, or maybe sarcastic with her so it's not like you were gushy and can now just be cooler to her. See, I was always super friendly to said friend of mine, so when this happened, I was able to cool a little without becoming mean. I don't know. I just wouldn't announce to her that you're ignoring her or anything. Also, try not to get your guy friend involved, a third person in a situation that should only concerns two just sounds like a bad idea.
I hope you found something helpful out of all that rambling, and I hope things work out well for you with this girl.
Okay what you said on the top it dosent matter how many people say it, it dosnt make it right
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