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Old 07-19-2011, 10:24 AM   #11
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Default Re: My best friend is just using me.

I know that you are afraid of her bullying you if you say no to her, but she is already bullying you now. :/ I think it would be really good to tell your parents about it. You could tell your 'friend' that your parents have said that you are not allowed to give away or lend anything more to her. One of the hardest things in the world is to have to learn to say 'NO' to people. It would be good for your friend also, to have to accept that she can't have everything of yours. You're right, she is trying to find a boundary with you. As long as you say yes, she will push for more. Draw a line now, and just tell her that you're not allowed to give away anymore.
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Old 07-19-2011, 11:59 AM   #12
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Talk to her about it and let her know that she is sti your friend! Then she can realize what she is doing and then you and her can both work on a better friendship. Make sure she knows it's bothering you and I guarantee she will try to make herself a better person !
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:37 PM   #13
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If she's using you, you should probably stop talking to her, and stop being her friend. I am SO sorry this is happening, but i totally understand. Girls do this a lot.. The world is mean now. I just wouldn't give her stuff/buy her stuff ect. Unless it's like, her b-day or something. Maybe you should talk to her? Good luck whatever you do.
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Old 07-19-2011, 03:39 PM   #14
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Default Re: My best friend is just using me.

That doesn't sound like things a "friend" would do AT ALL.
First of all, if she's asking you for stuff, Webkinz, codes, I wouldn't get her any. She can get them herself, you should spend your money on yourself if the people you'd spend it on won't give you anything in return. But if it's for a special occasion or a holiday, MAYBE.

No friend should tell other's secrets. That's just a terrible, unfriendly thing to do.
She sounds more like a bully than a "friend". I'd slowly break the friendship, even if it seems hard.
I've had a bunch of "friends" in the past who haven't been very "friendly", and my TRUE friends and I stick together.

Hopefully this helps :/
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I used to have a friend like that. she was always making me feel bad about myself.It was like a toxic poison on my friendship with someone else,too. I just finally told her off. I said, "Look. If you can't be a good person and have a positive attitude, we shouldn't talk anymore." She rolled her eyes and walked away. we are not friends anymore, and I'm glad. Hope this helped!!!!
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Old 07-19-2011, 06:29 PM   #16
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Default Re: My best friend is just using me.

Just tell her that you don't want to buy stuff for her if she's going to be selfish about it.
And if you really can't take it anymore, just forget about her. You don't deserve to be treated like that. If she tells your secrets, it doesn't matter. Just tell everyone it's not true. At least you'll feel much better and not have to waste your money. I think it's way better if you had nicer friends that wouldn't do that. Good luck.
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Default Re: My best friend is just using me.

This one sounds just like my situation in a way anyways.

Go check out my thread I need friendship advice and see if that is any help to you.

In the recent months I have decided that the friendship is toxic and that I just need to break it off, but I don't think the same for your situation. I have a feeling something more is going on with your friend and that you just need to talk to her about how you feel used and then if she doesn't change you just need to break it because she is a toxic friend.

I used to be really bad about saying no too, but that only got me into deep trouble and people were walking all over me all the time. So I started saying no or if I couldn't say no to that person I would just act like I couldn't hear them and walk away. I know that sounds rude, but when it is a girl asking me to give them my homework I'm going to say no. I don't do anything I don't want to do. If you can't say no make up some really lame excuse. Who cares if it is lame. It gets you out of the situation. I used to go to my grandparents house every weekend when I was really mad at one of my friends.

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