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Old 03-13-2012, 06:38 PM   #1
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My group of friends consists of 5 girls and a guy. At lunch, the guy only sits with us every other day because he has another group of friends that is too large to sit at the same table.

Today, he was at the other table. Two of my friends started to make fun of him. They said some pretty mean things on who he liked and stuff. We all knew they were teasing so we were laughing.

The guy saw we were laughing and some of us (not me) were looking at him some of the time. He asked my friend who started the whole thing after lunch what we were laughing about. My friend told him more than the truth and blamed it on me.

This guy was my first best friend I made when I moved. Now he won't even talk to me and he's not answering my texts. I also kind of like him.

I'm really mad at my friend. She was lazy and took the easy route out of the problem, putting the weight and responsibility on my shoulders. She's texting me like crazy asking for forgiveness but I don't know if I should forgive her, yet.

What should I do? I don't want to lose my friends.
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Old 03-13-2012, 06:43 PM   #2
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dont forgive her!! tell her what she did is wrong! tell the dude that you didnt mean to make fun of him you were joking around


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Old 03-13-2012, 07:04 PM   #3
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Try and get him alone to explain.
If you've explained in your texts, and he doesn't believe you, you can get your friend to set it straight. If she's so crazy about wanting to be forgiven, then this would honestly only be fair. Not to mention, he currently thinks she's on his good side, so he'll listen to her.
I hope everything smooths over for you.
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Old 03-13-2012, 07:14 PM   #4
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Try and get him alone to explain.
If you've explained in your texts, and he doesn't believe you, you can get your friend to set it straight. If she's so crazy about wanting to be forgiven, then this would honestly only be fair. Not to mention, he currently thinks she's on his good side, so he'll listen to her.
I hope everything smooths over for you.
exactly what I was thinking. Have your friend who is still on his good side send an explanatory text. That way, she'll get her punishment and you can righteously forgive her.
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Old 03-13-2012, 07:22 PM   #5
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The thing is that she's already on his bad side from a previos event
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The thing is that she's already on his bad side from a previos event
Ohhh, that makes it more difficult. Um, why don't you let this boil down for a while, and in a few days have a chat with him about what happened? Or make him a card explaining thing and telling him you are sorry for talking about him behind his back. I still think your friend should send him the text though, that way he knows from a source other than you that you did not start it.
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Old 03-13-2012, 07:50 PM   #7
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View Post Originally Posted by Amygirl8
Try and get him alone to explain.
If you've explained in your texts, and he doesn't believe you, you can get your friend to set it straight. If she's so crazy about wanting to be forgiven, then this would honestly only be fair. Not to mention, he currently thinks she's on his good side, so he'll listen to her.
I hope everything smooths over for you.
Agreed.
I'd just try texting him, and being like "I'm really sorry, but I really need to talk to you. Please let me know when we can talk."
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:08 PM   #8
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Try texting or calling him, and explain it to him. If he's truly your friend he will believe you and forgive you. If that doesn't work, get the friend who blamed you to explain it to him. That was really wrong on your friend's part, you don't lie to your friends. If they're really your friends though, everything will work out (:
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Old 03-13-2012, 08:49 PM   #9
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If he's not answering anything at school get him alone and explain what really happened see if he'll understand. And the girl tell her to explain it to your guy friend if he listens it'll be all right he'll understand.
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I know:


Have a talk with your friend, but secretly record the conversation on your phone. Then, show it to your guy-friend.


If that doesn't work, I have no idea what would.
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