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Old 04-01-2011, 10:42 PM   #1
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I had this good friend, and she used to be really nice. Over time, she began to make mean comments at me, and became...Snobbish. She's changed. A LOT. But it all began about a month ago when she made a comment,

"Fake girls wear fake nails!!"

When a girl accidently, not even thinking about, broke one of her fake nails off. And said, "Ouch! that hurt!" If you've worn fake nails, and tore them off before they were supposed to come off, they hurt. Five or six girls witnessed her say it, and became angry. When I heard about it, I was FURIOUS. Because my mom happens to wear fake nails. I was talking to my other friends, when she came up. Andrea* who happened to be wearing fake nails, got in her face, and said, "I wear fake nails, and I AM NOT FAKE." and she storms off. I then said, "My mother wears fake nails, and she defiantly is not fake!" and walked off.

When the girls asked her about it, she denied it.

Yesterday, (Thursday) she made a very rude comment to a girl, who isn't my friend, while she was running.

Kiley* was running as fast as she could, because she had to go to the bathroom, and Heather* (my "friend") said,

"Kiley, I've never seen you run so fast before!"

Kiley: "I have to go to the bathroom!!!"

Heather: "Well, I've never seen you run so fast, you know, because of your weight and all!!"

Sidney* told me this on the bus, and I BLEW. UP.

When Veronica* heard about it, she did too.

So the next morning, in study hall, ( I did keep under control,) I said to Heather,

me:"What you said to Kiley yesterday was uncalled for. You need to apologize to her!"

Heather:"What I say!?"

me: "You were were all, "I've never seen you run that fast before, you know, because of your weight and all!"

Heather: "I didn't say that!"

(Veronica comes in)

Veronica: "YEAH RIGHT. GOD, HEATHER, STOP DENYING IT!"

And Heather starting crying.


I'm still fuming about what she said. Should I have not have said anything?


* = Fake names.
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Old 04-02-2011, 12:08 AM   #2
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Default Re: Did I do the wrong thing?

I don't thinks you did the wrong thing. I deal with this almost every day at my school. the Preps always say mean things to my friends and I BLOW UP!!!! (just like you apparently) It makes me so mad to see that they think that they are better than everyone else and judge everyone else by their looks.
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Old 04-02-2011, 12:27 AM   #3
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I don't really think you did.
I mean, if somebody made fun of my friends, I'd say something.
Whenever someone says something to my friend, I always think "Well do I say something, and try and stop it, or is that person just going to say something like 'Oh, you can't even fight your own fights? Now you have to have others fight them for you?", or something like that. But most of the time, I say something. So I don't really think you did anything wrong, IMO. I probably would have done the same thing
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Old 04-02-2011, 12:31 AM   #4
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I am sorry that happeneed. But if she really did say it(cause i dont think your friend would lie about it...) then she should apologize, and stop being so rude. Maybe you and your friends should see the counselor at school? And i dont think what you did was wrong, it was right to go tell her that, but she took it the wrong way
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Old 04-02-2011, 07:32 AM   #5
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I think if you talked about it to her, then that would be the right thing to do.. I don't know about blowing up, though. (I never really get mad at people, soo... ) Screaming and such could just make the situation worse.
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Old 04-02-2011, 07:35 AM   #6
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I think you should stand up for the things you believe in.
You did
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Old 04-02-2011, 07:56 AM   #7
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I don't think you did anything wrong. Talk to Heather about it like "What you said was not nice, but everything will be fine if you apologize," or something.
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Old 04-02-2011, 08:44 AM   #8
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I don't you think did anything wrong either.
It's not right for her to say things like that, and it's good that you stood up to her.
I think Heather probably has her own things to deal with, and it's not your fault that she reacted that way.
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Old 04-02-2011, 09:36 AM   #9
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View Post Originally Posted by teaandpizza
I think if you talked about it to her, then that would be the right thing to do.. I don't know about blowing up, though. (I never really get mad at people, soo... ) Screaming and such could just make the situation worse.
I didn't blow up AT her, but I got very angry that she said something like that. When I talked to her in Study hall, I said calmly, knowing if I have the same reaction as Veronica*, it would probably end up looking nastier than it already is.
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Old 04-02-2011, 10:13 PM   #10
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I would let it simmer for a while,
and then maybe ask your mom what you should do.
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